Human | To Affair Is

We’ve all heard the old proverb: To err is human; to forgive, divine.

But acknowledging the humanity of the act changes the conversation. It moves us from: “You are a monster and our love was a lie.” To: “You are a flawed person who made a devastating choice. Now, what do we do with the wreckage?” One response leads to revenge and paralysis. The other leads to truth, and possibly—though not always—repair. Before you click away thinking this is too soft on cheaters, ask yourself: Have you ever lied to protect your ego? Have you ever wanted something you shouldn’t want? Have you ever stayed in a situation that was slowly suffocating you? To Affair is Human

Let me be clear upfront: This is not a defense of cheating. It is an autopsy of why it happens, and a plea to stop pretending that the capacity for infidelity lives only in “bad people” on the other side of a moral fence. We’ve all heard the old proverb: To err

Why we need to stop treating infidelity as a monster and start seeing it as a mirror. Now, what do we do with the wreckage