The most profound lesson of the changeover is this: You do not need to add things to your life to change. You need to subtract them.
During the changeover, your friends will get uncomfortable. They liked the old you. The old you was predictable. The old you didn't ask big, scary questions. They will say things like, "Maybe you're overthinking it," or "You were fine before." They mean well. But they are trying to pull you back into the burning building because the fire makes them nervous. The Changeover
But here is the problem with a well-built house: eventually, it becomes a prison. The most profound lesson of the changeover is
You will be yours . And that is infinitely better. If you are reading this right now, sitting in your own metaphorical grocery store parking lot, feeling the walls of your old life crumbling around your ears, let me tell you what no one else will: They liked the old you
Let the changeover break your heart wide open, because that is the only way to let the light in. Have you experienced a major changeover in your life? Share your story in the comments below. You never know who might be standing in their own rubble, needing to hear that the collapse is not the end—it’s the beginning.