As she wrote in the introduction: "The women who wrote these fantasies are not ‘sick.’ They are not ‘perverted.’ They are not ‘frigid’ or ‘nymphomaniacs.’ They are women like your wife, your mother, your sister, your best friend—and yourself." Unsurprisingly, My Secret Garden ignited fierce controversy.
Yet the book’s historical importance is beyond dispute. Before My Secret Garden , there was virtually no public conversation about women’s erotic imagination. After it, that conversation became impossible to avoid. Nancy Friday went on to write several more books on female and male sexuality, including Forbidden Flowers (1975) and Men in Love (1980). But My Secret Garden remained her most famous work. My Secret Garden By Nancy Friday
Whether you read it as a historical artifact, a piece of feminist literature, or a mirror held up to your own secret self, My Secret Garden invites you to ask a simple question: What grows in yours? As she wrote in the introduction: "The women
She recalled asking female friends about their fantasies, only to be met with denial or shame. "Women thought they were the only ones," she later said. "They believed there was something wrong with them." After it, that conversation became impossible to avoid