April - Filipina Sex Diary -

Then there’s my best friend, Jasmin. She’s been in a “live-in but not labeled” setup with her boyfriend, Carlo, for two years. April is when their story always gets spicy—because Carlo’s ex-girlfriend (the one his family still calls “the one who got away” ) comes home from Dubai every summer.

I’ve been scribbling in this diary for three Aprils now, and one thing is certain: Walang permanenteng tag-araw, pero may permanenteng sakit ng ulo pagdating sa pag-ibig. (There’s no permanent summer, but there’s a permanent headache when it comes to love.) Filipina Sex Diary - April

The romantic storyline here isn’t about cheating—it’s about kaba (anxious butterflies). Jasmin didn’t confront him. Instead, she did what any Filipina in April would do: she invited herself to that beach trip. Now the three of them are in Boracay together. I’ve been getting 3 AM voice messages of Jasmin whisper-shouting from the bathroom: “ATE, NASA KATABI NIYA AKO HABANG KUMUKWENTO SIYA NG MEMORIES NILA!” (SIS, I’M RIGHT NEXT TO HIM WHILE HE’S RECOUNTING THEIR MEMORIES!) Then there’s my best friend, Jasmin

— Ate (Your Filipina Diarist) 💔🌞🌸 I’ve been scribbling in this diary for three

It’s that strange week of April again. The sun is punishing, the jasmine flowers (sampaguita) are wilting by noon, and yet—there’s something electric in the air. Maybe it’s the countdown to summer flings. Maybe it’s because Holy Week just passed, and after all that reflection, our hearts are either bruised clean or ready to sin again.

By the end of April, either they’ll be engaged or broken up. There’s no in-between in Filipino summer love stories. I’m preparing a pansit (noodle dish) for the post-breakup eating session and a lechon manok for the engagement toast. That’s friendship. Storyline #3: The Quiet Crush on the Sari-Sari Store Kuya