In the absence of his hands, she learned the language of her own again. She prepared a Mandi Rempah (spice bath)—boiling ginger, lemongrass, and cengkih (clove) until the steam made her eyes water. It was a decongestant for the soul. She let the spicy water sting her skin. She cried into the steam. But as the water cooled, so did her anger.

In the story of Melati , a batik artist living in a bustling Kuala Lumpur condo, her bathroom was her sanctuary. Every evening, she performed what she called the Rendaman Penyucian (Purification Soak). She would fill her deep tub, toss in pandan leaves for a hint of sweetness and sea salt for memory. As the water turned opaque with milk and herbs, she would trace the lines of her own arms, her collarbones, the curve of her waist. She was not looking for flaws. She was learning the geography of her own body.

This is the crucial chapter: the return to the self .