But the good news? You can lay down your weapons. Here is how to stop sabotaging yourself and finally become your own best ally.
This sounds cheesy, but stick with me. Self-compassion is not weakness; it is the ultimate act of resilience.
According to Cardalda, we don’t start life as our own enemy. We learn it. We internalize the voices of strict parents, demanding teachers, or a society that sells perfection.
Let me ask you a blunt question: Who is the meanest person to you?
In her transformative work, “Cómo Dejar De Ser Tu Peor Enemigo,” psychologist Alba Cardalda drops a truth bomb: